This is why I love the game. I met up with the Ukrainian girl again and we actually did a mini day trip to somewhere I was going anyway, I invited her along and she accepted. It was her last day in town before she left so I knew it was basically now or never.
Not my first rodeo but it was the first time in a long time that I’ve had so many objections and difficulty escalating on the previous two dates. So onto date 3, we have a great day, we are driving through some mountains and she said “it would be great to fuck in these mountains”, I can see what’s happening here. A little bait, she’s enjoying playing with me.
Anyway I want to keep this short so I told her she should come and stay with me on her last night and get to the airport in the morning from mine. She thought about it and agreed but said no sex. Yep, fine not a problem. I pick her up and it’s already late so I suggest we go to bed and chat. We kiss, I escalate and she says no. We go again and then this time I get her tits out but she pulls away. Then we go again and we’re so close to fucking at this point but she won’t let me in her underwear. She’s smiling and loving it but doesn’t want to have sex. We are finally at the point where things are so hot and she basically freezes and pulls up the drawbridge. Bra goes on, clothes go on and all that.
From experience that means one of two things. She’s completely done or she’s just throwing out the last signs of resistance. I mimicked her energy and looked to go to sleep. Then a few minutes later her clothes come off and she just says “I’m going to regret doing this but let’s have sex.” And we go at it, she fucking loved it. My first notch of the mini trip, took ages compared to usual but that’s life. I’m still feeling my way back into all this and I’ve noticed my intent is slowly coming back.
Went on another date today, I knew it wasn’t going to go further today but we kissed. I’ll call her Missy and see her next week. Also have another date tomorrow with a chick called H. And then have a few other soft leads, nothing concrete.
The Grit 