I left the community and relentless shagging behind me because of burn out. I remember waking up one day feeling like a complete shell of myself. I probably had a rotation of around 10 girls I was juggling, plus banging new chicks and the pure logistics alone was ridiculous. God knows how I had time to manage work, friends and family. What it did give me was a ruthless efficiency and I’ve pretty much nailed how to get girls into bed quickly. But I realised the rinse and repeat process wasn’t giving me that same hit anymore. I kept trying the same stuff but nothing.
I got to the point where I’d be bored whilst shagging a new girl if I wasn’t that into her but just wanted the notch. That’s when it hit me. I had fucked enough girls. Getting into this, guys want to fuck lots of girls but rarely actually think about what would be enough girls for them. I hit that point around 250+ notches. It just got monotonous.
Then I got into a relationship. Ended having loads of threesomes with girls, living a crazy life on the other end of the scale and enjoying that. Then again came the boredom from the relationship. One crack pipe to another.
Well here comes another crack pipe! I am back in game, I’m not going to be aiming for a crazy number of notches, it’s just not where I want to be anymore. I reckon a solid 25-30 a year is a good manageable process with some longer term things mixed into that.
This year I am also going to give daygame a proper go, it looks fun and have dabbled and had some success from it before but it’s a grind. I want a challenge though. So the goal for this year is just to enjoy the process of it. Not to get too wrapped up in anything other than enjoying the interactions, enjoying the dates etc and not holding too much importance on how well I do because I have fucked enough birds at this point in my life so I don’t feel like there’s anything left to prove. If she likes you, she likes you, if she doesn’t no bother.
The Grit 