I want to preface this by saying that I don’t really read a lot of the content other guys are putting out anymore. I’ve always wanted to give back to the community which has given me so much but there is so much bullshit out there which is just are just marketing gimmicks and false promises.
Now I can only tell you what has worked for me and you need to decide if you think that can be applicable to you. But as I always emphasise and will always emphasise, none of changes are possible without hard work and some real soul searching. This blog will go back and forth between some more light hearted thoughts and serious things because just like life, nothing is black and white. I myself am still a work in progress, I’m 30 but I have lived a pretty full life already by putting myself out there and being willing to do things other guys might not be.
Now I just want to pass some of my experiences on, it’s a challenge for me to even translate everything I do into something teachable to someone with different reference experiences and personal conditions. But I will try and that is also why I put an emphasis on teaching the structure rather than getting too into the details, because they are something you will have to hone yourself over time.
I really learnt through osmosis, by listening to guys I wanted to emulate and picking up their energy and embodying that. You can do the same with me, listen to my words and even though (at the time of writing) you can’t see my face, you will still be able to feel the energy I’m giving off.
I want this blog to be a one stop shop for guys, a place to come when something isn’t quite going right in their lives and they can leave with the tools to make it better. So please share, subscribe and give feedback if you want to see more.
The Grit 
2 responses to “Why this blog exists”
Hey man, glad to see the new blog up and running. I’m the guy who on your old one suggested the move to WordPress. I think if you’re up to it, it’ll be worth reposting your old blog posts as well… Or maybe saving them for a rainy day when you haven’t much inspiration to write. Some good gems in there.
Who were your biggest inspirations in game back when you were still reading? Whose stuff has stayed with you most into the present?
And two final suggestions for your page: 1. Add a search bar or some other way to find old posts. Will be useful when you’ve put together an ouvre. 2. Edit your seddit posts with your blog link at the end to bring in new readership. Your 56 girls post is one of the most liked on the sub and I suspect still getting a lot of traffic when filtered for top posts of the year. Small effort, big payoff.
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Thanks man, I’ve had such a busy start to the year but I’m still out there putting in the work so the value is going to keep on coming. In terms of who my inspirations were back in the day probably Krauser, Jon Sinn, 60 Years of Challenge, Steve Jabba and there are more guys who I spoke to on forums who probably gave me the best advice. The best advice really came from guys who were just living a normal life and enjoyed banging women on the side. I still have their words rattling around their head and I already guys have said the same to me, so it’s good that the value is being transferred.
Thanks for the advice.
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