There are many ways you can interpret the word freedom. It means different things to people at various stages of their lives. Let’s start basic. I mean really basic, as a man you ought to be able to live a free life. That means at a bare minimum you should be able to live by yourself, drive a car, earn good money and be able to fuck the girls you want.
Once you have those basics stored it’s really hard for people to fuck with your frame and your vibe. You have somewhere solid to live by yourself, you don’t have other people making decisions on influencing your life. If you live with parents, this is the opposite of freedom, if you live with a wife or girlfriend unless you have a strong frame, she will dig her heels in an assert herself in your life. That fucks with your freedom, the next thing you know people are asking where you are at what time and suddenly your weekends are earmarked for doing chores when you could be doing something else.
Anyway, I digress. The value of freedom is core to having an unfuckable vibe. You cannot be fucked around or taken advantage of if you take your freedom seriously. You see it at work all the time, guys are taken for a ride at a company for shit money and if you’re lucky you get recognition for your work. That is not the way to live your life. It’s been hammered in the community over and over again but have the power to walk away and mean it. If you can’t say no, take stock of your situation and build a system that means you don’t have to say no.
Unfortunately, I can see what happens when you have no real control over your freedom through a good friend of mine. I actually reached out to him today because I can sense the net slowly closing in around his freedom and ability to make choices. Realistically, this has been a car crash in slow motion. I recall thinking this a few years ago and now the car is in a slide. He can catch the slide but it’s going to take some tough decisions.
Long story short. Make good choices. Live free. Don’t let any fucker crush you.
The Grit 