I saw this happen in front of my own eyes on Paddy’s Day. There was a guy, who was in decent shape and not bad looking making out with a chick who was morbidly obese and balding. This just isn’t on, there’s no reason to ever sink that low. It’s not even low hanging fruit, it’s picking up rotten fruit off the ground.
If we’re honest, there are a lot of men out there slumming it. . Don’t be that guy. I truly believe that if you start getting with girls who are “below” you, it puts a stain on your soul and your vibe. Plus if you have girls in your social circle, they will pick up on it and god knows they wouldn’t touch you with a 10 foot pole in case they get bundled in with the other girl.
That’s why when I go out and I’m looking for girls, I just go for the ones who really catch my eye. That being said, the standard is your own standard. Don’t worry about who your mates fancy, I realised a long time ago that my type is different from a lot of my mates. I’m now at the point where I see a girl who really appeals to me on a primal level and the next moment I’m already talking to her. You want to create a switch in your body that goes off when you see someone who matches what you are looking for. After a while, you realise that you do so much filtering and this stuff just happens automatically. I’m at the point now where I realise I like a girl when my body is basically urging me to go and talk to her, I still have the approach anxiety but my body is almost willing me on.
Guys be your best authentic self on all levels and that means getting rid of things in your life that don’t serve you. Hanging out with other guys who will bring down your vibe is just as bad as dumpster diving when it comes to chicks.
The Grit 